Facing Fears

“Self-pity is our worst enemy and if we yield to it, we can never do anything wise in this world.”
- Helen Keller quotes

I find myself thinking about what it means to fight for something when the one you’re fighting for don’t mind at all.

I felt disappointed when that uncertainty comes out in my life. I was just quite person that some people possibly can’t understand what it feels like to be me, when someone was talking about you behind your back, and insulting of what you are. It’s hard to feel like you’re thinking that you are being underestimated and not respected by other people.

That was one toughest day of my life. To conquer self-pity along with people you call your friends. It was such embarrassments that you fight for the one you love to protect your friends from unnecessary comment from people around you most especially from the one you love. Then suddenly for just a day you’ll just keep asking in yourself, “Are they really worthy of your trust?” when right behind you they don’t mind at all.

Everyone have their individual differences and attitude which a person should always observe to make people respect and value. It wasn’t bad at all to acknowledging misunderstandings or problem with your friends. It is even much better that you help them eliminate unnecessary attitude or actions.

Don’t let insecurities, gossips, disappointments and failures ruin your life but rather; use them as instrument of change to be a better person. You may don’t have a perfect quality of a person, but you have the courage and talent that other person may not posses.

And share your problem with someone you trust to help you feel free from what you suffer.

“Laugh at yourself and at life. Not in the spirit of derision or whining self-pity, but as a remedy, a miracle drug, that will ease your pain, cure your depression, and help you to put in perspective that seemingly terrible defeat and worry with laughter at your predicaments, thus freeing your mind to think clearly toward the solution that is certain to come. Never take yourself too seriously.”

Reference:


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